V.S.O.P.

I really dislike this song, yet I love this song. V.S.O.P is about a woman who loves a man. This man has another woman yet they have so much history and so much love that they keep coming back to each other.

The reason I love this song is because there is always that one guy or two guys, where no matter how much the two of you may fuss and fight you love each other. You know what he likes to drink, how he likes his food, if he smokes weed whether he likes it rolled in a leaf or he smokes out of a pipe. There’s no other place than in his arms that you want to relax, yet it’s always something-stubbornness, attitudes, other women, dreams, goals or just plain ‘ole timing.

No matter  how many problems, or how many years, they will always be Very Special.

Friends: Supportive or Unsupportive

 

I recently got out of a relationship with my child’s father. I love him very much, however it just seemed like he and I could never just find our rhythm. I would talk to my friends, associates, fellow female counterparts-seeking advice and support. Thinking that these ladies would have a new perspective for me to see. What was I missing?? 

I love my friends and my family. They have supported me in ways that no one could have imagined, however I never had someone tell me to get back in there and fight it out when I was ready to walk away. That small little push a woman might need from that friend that says, Girl, you are just mad right now. You love him. You aren’t going any where. You get back in there and fight for your relationship. 

What happened to that? 

I think we as women are secretly bitter. We are either single and miserable or in a relationship and miserable, so we won’t tell that friend that she needs to stick it out and make it work. We won’t tell that friend that she is acting like a bitch and she is just being emotional.

Ladies let’s think next time our friends come to us. Are we speaking from a place of truth or a place of hurt?