BABY BABY BABY!!!!

Hi Everyone, 

Yesterday I had my daughter. YAY!!!! First baby!!!! I am already exhausted. We are doing just fine. 

While I am adjusting to breast feeding and diaper changes I will be taking a small sabbatical for awhile. You never know I may have some guest bloggers step in and share their thoughts. 

Thank you everyone for your love and support.

I will see you soon!!!!

We as women fool ourselves some times into thinking that we can handle male honesty from our significant others, For example:

You really think your man could come to you and said I feel like a dead beat cuz we’re broke and i wanna fuck another woman because that makes me feel like a man again that you would’ve said, baby i understand how you feel……

HELL THE FUCK NO……STOP KIDDING YOURSELVES…..LOL

A quick lesson I learned.

Many times we want people to fit our experience and handle their experience the way we handle ours…..That’s not the case. We are all different. We are all unique. WE can all learn from each other. If we operate different from another, that doesn’t make us weak. It makes us different. We can all learn from each other.

We need to try our best to understand, empathize, and sympathize. Compassion is always first and the name of the game. If you can not love unconditionally and give compassion freely, no matter what, then we truly are like the clanging cymbals in 1 Corinthians 13.

Everyone is on their journey. We must remember that we have the power to hurt deeply, even though we do not intend to cause that hurt.